JUST SAY NO

“The difference between successful people and very successful people is that very successful people say 'no' to almost everything.”

— Warren Buffett

 A quote to remind myself that it's okay not to be a constant people pleaser. Say "No" to get more accomplished!

See also: 7 Things to Start Being More Productive, Today

Continue banishing self-limiting beliefs...

"There are three primary securities you must give up if you want to become the best version of yourself:

1. 1) Certainty of the future
2. 2) Fear of judgement
3. 3) Other people’s definition of success"

Source: How to Unlearn Limiting Mindsets and Become the Best Version of Yourself

Lighten Up

Back in Austin, where I'm continuing the path to my best self possible -- a lifelong journey!

Last year I chose flight over fighting for the strength to stay in this city. It's been tough coming back to memories and damaged relationships.

Still in the repair process, I open my heart to be mended. Wonderful souls have surfaced to help stitch up the pieces despite additional tears from fair weather acquaintances. Even with the assist, I must do the work to stay in love with me.


Peace is being sought, not yet reciprocated. Patience is a virtue.


Ecstatic Dance, Authentic Relating -- these things keep the happy vibrations up.


Go hug a human you love, go make amends with a human you hurt. Life is too short not to lighten up the burdens of the past on the way to the future, present divine.

Worthwhile read: Why Most People Will Never Have Great Relationships

Success defined at Earth Day 2018 (Austin, Texas)

Gratitude...

Practicing gratitude. I am thankful for the opportunity to:

- Enjoy springtime with my bestie, Kristen (Kissy, Kissay, Kristawn)

- Have experienced a passionate, youthful love that still delivers fond memories in proximity of the spaces we shared

- Work on a passion project, Project Any True Meaning (ATM)



Worth a read:
Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life Might Just Help You Live a More Fulfilling Life

Nearly a year ago...

I was being squashed out of an organization where I was a highly paid "business development director".  This title is in quotations because it could mean many different things depending on your industry of experience.

Flash forward to the current moment in which The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck resonates.

Meanwhile, coming to terms with the past:

- Accordingly to a number of Netflix series and history books, many queens were beheaded for not producing an heir to the throne

And appreciating the past:

- I grew up watching Disney movies that were popular from 19?? to 1998.

Plus being absolutely thankful for the recent past and present:

- In the past 365 days, I have been Ariel from The Little Mermaid,  Belle from Beauty and The Beast,  and Jasmine from Aladdin. Right now I may be Simba from the Lion King, but this idea, like most, is open to interpretation.

God save the queen.

My current mission is to make people smile. It's one of the best things you can do in life.

SXSW 2018 / Return to Austin

Last week was spent visiting the city of Austin, where I lived from 2011 to 2017. 

Known for its live music scene and where I trace the biggest heartbreak of my life, Austin is also the host city for the SXSW conference. 

My fascination with The Netherlands was deepened at SXSW during 2017 and continued at this year's event with the New Dutch Wave's event series, which included a fascinating talk by Arash Aazami, who shared a vision about digital energy powering the globe.

I enjoyed the opportunity to catch up with friends and build more interest around Project Any True Meaning, which has been a major focus for me recently. More to come regarding the development of this passion project!